Hello
Editing 3220 Class
My
name is Julie White. I'm currently a Junior with an emphasis in
English/Creative Writing. Although I
love writing, I've recently discovered that I also enjoy painting and
the arts. Perhaps this marriage of two
vast interest can merge into one as I'd love to write and illustrate
Children's books. My writing skills have certainly improved over the
years and I've gained valuable experience by writing blogs, stories,
website content and several editorial articles for the Standard
Examiner.
Born
in Los Angeles, I moved at a young age to Utah and grew up in the
South Jordan/Sandy area. I
attended
Bingham High School a very long time ago. Several months ago I turned
fifty. That means I'm old, really old. Unless you're fifty. Then it
doesn't feel that old. In fifty years I've experienced a lot of bumps
and bruises and I hope I'm wiser for it. Over the summer I discovered
Pickelball. I've heard people rave about it and now I understand why.
If you're looking for a goofy sport that's fun and doesn't seem like
exercise until you're dripping sweat, give it a try. Every AARP
member should play it. My day job is working for a Chiropractor. I'm
grateful that I work for him as he keeps me walking straight.
In
my younger days I loved the thrill of adventure. I did all kinds of
crazy stunts that now
make
my hands sweat at the thought. I even sky dived. My greatest
adventure that scared me silly happened when I learned to fly a
plane. I've learned the hard way that great survival stories come
with painful lessons.
My
former husband and I didn't get along well. What started out as a
great love story slowly crumbled until
his depression and abuse made life miserable. Most of the time we
lived as roommates. His cycles of
depression kept me on my toes. A few times I cried on the phone to a
suicide prevention counselor for
help when my depressed husband went into a full blown melt down. He
spent months in a hospital psych
ward and I watched him undergo 12 rounds of shock treatment that left
him with short term memory
loss. After 14 years of marriage we divorced. It left me with little
interest in ever remarrying.
I've
taken a seven year break from collage and returning to school gets
harder with age. The mind is willing, but the body argues. Life is
full of surprises and I never thought that at middle age I'd be
divorced and childless. That wasn't suppose to happen. I should have
grand babies to fuss over. Instead, I find myself caring for my aging
mother, working and returning to school. Despite these challenges I'm
grateful for goals, and the support of family and friends.
I absolutely loved reading your story, Julie. I was married to a man with severe psychological issues as well. I didn't realize how severe they were until I extricated myself from the situation. It's strange to me now, to think about what I used to live with. I'm glad that you have your mom to take care of, that relationship is so precious. Best of luck with your writing/painting career, I'm sure it will be amazing!
ReplyDeleteI agree with Melanie - I loved reading your story! And I can relate to how hard it is to go back to school when you're a little older. But it is DEFINITELY doable and worth it! I have friends who have encouraged me to try pickleball... maybe I will. I enjoyed your endorsement of it. Best of luck to you!
ReplyDeleteHi, Melanie! my boss at the salon I work at loves to play Pickleball too! If you ever need a partner, I'll give you her number. Also, I loved how you ended this post, and I reiterate the idea: let's all master punctuation and grammar together!
ReplyDeleteMelanie, I admire your ability to speak candidly about your situation. I have been on both sides of the suicide hot line. The one calling for help, like you did and the person answering the phone. I learned that I can't make rational sense out of irrational thinking. And that I need therapy for myself. I hope you also had educated help for you dealing with mental health issues so they don't haunt you in the future. My dad died of cancer eight years ago. I don't regret serving him. I hope you can say the same thing about your mom. Life really is short and I look forward to learning from you personally and critically.
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